I just thought i would share a few thoughts and views on this phenomenon from the perspective of someone who has never had a paranormal experience of any kind, except for a possible ghost sighting, which i dont really count. In contemplating the idea of UFOs i have realized that there is truly something going on, which im sure everyone here would agree with. In realizing this im struck with the dilema that the realization of the phenomenon in and of itself means nothing. Im sure this is different for someone who has actually had an experience. I would imagine that a sighting or an encounter would have great meaning to the experiencer, but as a nonexperiencer i have no reference whatsoever to relate to that meaning. It's been said numerous times on the paracast that the experince is so far removed from anything we would encounter in day to day life that to comprehend it is almost impossible. I really relate to this notion. I cannot even begin to wrap my head around what it would mean to have a sighting, and ill even take that a step futher as to say that i don't believe i will ever have a sighting. the reason i say this is that, i see somewhat of a trend when it comes to this. On one hand there are individuals like myself, like Gene, like the fellow who apeared on the show a while back who was involved with ATS, that have a strong intrest in the subject but have never had an experience. On the other hand there are individuals like David and Jeff Riztman who seem to be somewhat of a lightning rod for this sort of thing. I think there may be some kind of clue in this, although i cant be sure what that clue might be. I find that the fact that some people are somewhat of a lightning rod for this phenomenon to work against the idea that these are simply aliens visiting earth from some far off unknown location. I find it hard to believe that aliens would be coming back to check on specific individuals throughout there lives. Doesnt it seem strange that people would have multiple experiences? I relate it to winning to lottery multiple times. It just doesnt seem probable, seeing as these sightings are somewhat rare. I remeber Jeff Ritzman saying, on his first apperance on the paracast, something like "if people really want to have an experience whatever the force is behind this, it will seek you out" I really question that. I would be curious to hear Jeff elaborate a little more on this idea because maybe i just missed the point there. Im just curious if any of this strikes a nerve with anyone, or if you agree or disagree with any of this. ive spent a lot of time contemplating these things and when i try to bring it up with my friends they are quick to dismiss all of it so i thought i would bring some of these ideas to the forum.