GDT, (I don't really want to make this about me, but...)
The ghost impact does actually have significant parallels.
I experienced the haunted house at a young age from nursery school to the 2nd grade. It was NOT a pleasant experience. I was significantly tormented and lived in fear every night that i lived in that house. I also suffered from abuse and neglect from my poor pathetic parents.
I did end up with a hyper awareness, a hard wired fight or flight response. Ultimately I developed autoimmune disease, partially due to the constant stressors that my body is under from being hyper aware. If i am surprised, or have some triggered fear, a bolt of electricity will go through my body, and sometimes it is quite painful.:frown:
Knowing what the issues are, I have armed myself with many therapies that work synergistically.
Yoga, Karate, meditation, brain waves, food, EMDR, Rolfing, amino acids... and when all else fails, i go for the anti-depressants. I also work for myself, in a quite atmosphere.
I understand the pain of PTSD, and i don't mean to sound like I'm making light of it, i have personal experience and i have to work every day to not let it take over my life more then it already has. Once again i apologize if i sound like i'm being flippant.
I said "easy" treatments, because the process of therapy can sometimes be overwhelming and become a deterent in and of itself. EMDR is quite effective, and not nearly as painful as much therapy can be.
EMDR worked miracles for me, and so did the Rolfing/somatic therapies. Yes i still suffer from anxiety and depression, but I've been released from an invisible cage that i use to live in due to being highly defensive.
Hak, how were you able to resolve the experience and its impact on you? How did this change (if it did) your philosophy of life?
We are all evolving, but we must allow ourselves to evolve. Fear, depression, denial and anger will block this process.
I don't have a philosophy on life.. i was brought up as an atheist, but I've had enough bizarre experiences to develop a belief that there is so much more then we can possibly understand. The issue of aliens did make me feel literally dizzy for a couple of weeks, but I'm still me, just more curious.
I think i saw a UFO in my neighborhood as a child when i lived in Farmington, NM and i have denied myself that understanding for a long long time. Now, i think it is a real possibility.
All this discussion does make you think about how these experiences have affected people's lives and many of them, not for the better. Sometimes i think people who are severely skeptical are just in a form of denial themselves.
I wonder how it affected Mike's life.