Other than a couple of incredible ufo sightings, one maybe-ghostly-but-pleasant visitation, a few stunning, seemingly intuitive events and some odd results in awareness experimentation, I'm a paranormal wall flower, interested, but not terribly experienced.
However, in the interest of baring my soul
I've mentioned within these paracastical walls that my spouse of 29 years is finally opening up to me about his experiences, but it comes in dribs and drabs. I pull on that door handle occasionally because of his reluctance and I don't get much ... something I'm thankful for because I have a hard time handling it.
This isn't the guy I married, folks. This is a person who never reads or watches anything on TV about the paranormal, ufo stuff, nor is he interested in quantum science. Still, he tells me things, snippets of things that confirm he is in contact with someThing or someOne, much like the stories of abductees/contactees.
Except that he is occasionally extremely intuitive ... like I had a little upset stomach one day like everyone gets occasionally and he was sure it was serious enough to warrant a visit to a specialist ... who did confirm gall stones which resulted in surgery. One little upset stomach! Not so weird by itself except that he does this kind of thing often.
He has asked me to never relate what he's told me thus far, but there isn't anything he's said that doesn't match what some other contactees have said. He either omits the even stranger parts in his revelations or he may ignore them. Maybe he takes the contact for what it seems to be, too ephemeral to describe. We haven't had that discussion yet, but it's coming or at least I hope it is.
The one thing I think it necessary to quote, despite his request that I not repeat anything is, "They don't look like the THAT." Said with a lot of disdain, I might add. He'd walked into the kitchen where I was watching a show where Greys were depicted. He sat there for a few minutes and had had enough of the nonsense.
I have no idea who he's talking to or that he is really even in any contact at all. I've no idea if he goes to them in his dreams or while awake, but I know he is capable of visiting them while doing what he calls "leaving his body." He takes his ninety year old stepmom to church, closes his eyes and travels during those episodes. Having never heard of oobes, he's described how he leaves his body through his head and can see the congregation beneath his awareness. I've confirmed doing what he said I was doing here at home during some of those episodes ... except that I know he's intuitive so I don't put much stock in his apparent oobes. Those awareness experiments of mine seem to point to our having the ability to know more than we think we can anyway.
So I'm not sure if I'm only getting all this in a very slow leak because he's kept it secret for so long and/or because the very nature of what he has to discuss is so stunning, coming from who I thought was a regular Joe. Absolutely no one could have told me I'd be hearing this from him, not ever. I remain stunned.