The Lance thing is weird. I've told him more than once that he has plenty intelligence and dilligence and basically, if Lance says something related to a topic or case, you can usually bet your bottom dollar that he got off his ass to check his facts. I have told him that his opinions are valued and that if his facts are correct, all he need do is to put those facts down on paper (or post them here) - why o why does he always come across as this sarcastic, superior ass when the damage he intends to do should be based solely on the rights and wrongs of the subject.
I had no idea there might be alcohol involved and I'm not making assumptions about whether there might be a drinking problem etc, plenty in my own extended family have drunk too much and they are inevitably terrible bores when drunk, even when they are great sober. They always think they are stating the only correct opinion and everyone else is wrong etc...it's such an unattractive quality. I cannot stand 'bad' drinkers. I have zero doubt the novel 'Jekyll and Hyde' was doubt written by someone with personal experience living with an alcoholic, who is as nice as pie sober and a completely different animal with even just a few beers down the hatch.
Skeptics who cherry-pick cases are cowardly in that they avoid 'hard to explain away' cases like the plague. If someone has a real conviction that there is nothing to this UFO business, there should be no case they won't tackle. No-one expects a skeptic to be able to answer what countless other people cannot, i.e what are these objects/lights seen in the sky. It's easy to laugh at Billy Meier or Adamski, laugh at silly hoaxes or witnesses with wild stories but no evidence - anyone can do that.
But can they explain sightings by multiple sober and drug-free pilots with simultaneous radar tracks from different radar stations? No, the skeptics cannot and they don't even try....
I have hinted before that I find the zeal of some skeptics, like Lance but not just him, hard to work out. If they genuinely put UFOs in the same box as magic beans and Harry Potter, i.e pure fantasy, then it just doesn't make sense to spend so much time trying to convince everyone of their views.
Someone who does not believe in magic beans is just not going to go looking for places where people talk about the reality of magic beans and rip them apart day after day, because it would be an exercise in futility, non-productive and an utter waste of intelligence. What does Lance gain personally from coming back time and time again to slag people off? What does anyone gain by constantly slagging others off?
I just cannot help thinking it is a symptom of another problem entirely. Bullies are often the most insecure people around, deflecting perceived criticism of themselves onto others, cos they often cannot handle any criticism themselves.
I wish to be clear that I am not making assumptions about Lance's reasons for posting etc - it's just his name as a skeptic in this community makes me think about the zealous skeptic type that can be found anywhere.
I personally would happily see Lance back, so long as he stops getting personal and nasty as their is just no call for that at all.
Lance, if you are reading - your posts are valued but not the personal ridicule, re-join and try and be a little kinder when posting - it won't diminish your argument but it will enhance your own self with everyone else.