Oh please Walter, you should know better than to minimize hatred. When you refer to a woman as a "Clit" that's what u call hyper sexism and calling any woman a "carpet muncher" is beyond derogatory when it comes to talking about sexuality. You can tolerate that if you like just as some parts of America can tolerate Trump's overt hatreds for many but I think if you are running a forum and you want everyone to feel comfortable about being here then you actually have to hold a moral and human line. It's called respect for diversity. Some like Han would call it human decency. No one's free when hatred is allowed to have its way. And I did point to where it was nut now I make the point of repeating it for forum owners to take a moral stand. Thanks for opening it up.
I have been thinking about this: I should have written a PM to Gene to complain about the language on display.
Or I should have said something more in the thread.
My experience has been that Gene always try to resolve things in a fair way, but do we really need a moderator?
So I am personally requesting that we all refrain from using divisive and hurtful language from this point forward.
I believe Matthew was misguided in what he said, and didn't intend to hurt anybody. He has now been made aware of how his words could be interpreted.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, no matter how "wrong" it may seem to somebody else, but we need a set of standards the we collectively enforce to ensure that we don't intentionally or unintentionally hurt other people.
In other words I don't want to see any retrospective action, I am more concerned about how we move forward.
We have to work together no matter how hard it is, but that means we have to speak out when we see something wrong.
I am guilty of not speaking out, and probably would not be writing this unless "Burnt state" took a stand.
For me the single most repugnant comment in the entire thread did not come from either Jeff or Matthew and the person that said it had the best will in the world, I am convinced of that. I don't want to start an endless moral argument, but I think the mentality that writes off people as fractions or percentiles or numbers is far more dangerous than anything.
As Tyger so eloquently said we need to recognise the signs of fascism when we see them.
Now back to the Election as I said before I wish it was not clinton that was running against trump. There is too much baggage, but not enough to make trump a viable alternative in my consideration.
Whatever the result I hope and pray that it is handled in a peaceful and calm way.