I was about to post this in the "psychic abilities" thread started by Tommy Allison, but I thought that I'd put it here just so that I can keep my experience posts a little more tidy.
Originally after posting the out of body experience that happened to my friend, I was going to post my own, but I think I will post that at another time. It's a pretty emotional situation and I just don't feel like putting myself in that state right now.
Anyway, this happened some time around late 2001/early 2002. I had been in a relationship for about 3 years, and it was obviously going down hill. My girlfriend and I began to argue a lot, and I couldn't understand why. I was still madly in love with her, but her feelings were shifting.
One night, after a particularly heated argument, she left our flat and went to stay with her mother who lived only 15 or 20 minutes away. I tried to get my mind off of the fight by doing some reading, but I just couldn't let it go. I should maybe have prefaced this with the fact that there was another event between us about a year earlier that seemed to connect us on some sort of psychic level. I can go into that later if anyone cares to read it, and it is quite interesting, but I'll leave it for now. So anyway, I decide to just try and get some sleep, but my mind is just not having it.
I began to mentally trace the steps between our apartment and her mother's place. I don't remember why I was doing this, maybe it was some sort of meditation I thought might help me sleep, but underlying it all was a sense that I wanted her to know how upset I was but that I still loved her. Before I knew it, many minutes had passed and in my mind's eye I must have walked about 10 miles. I was holding a very clear image of the streets, intersections, buildings, everything, between our place and her mother's. This continued for some time longer until I saw that I was outside of her mother's apartment. I continued to watch myself enter the apartment, walk down the hall, and into my girlfriend's room where she was lying asleep in bed. (Her mom had kept it as her room simply because she hadn't much other use for it at the time.)
I remember taking a very deep breath and exhaling very slowly through my nose. In the back of my mind, I sort of shouted yet it was very muted, "Hey! This is bullshit! I love you and you love me and we shouldn't be doing this to each other!"
I snapped my eyes open and sort of felt something leave me. There was a certain intent and intensity that I didn't realize I was mustering, and a certain sense of awe and guilt overcame me. Something about it felt like more than just a "mind movie", and knowing that we had developed something of a psychic rapport, I began to wonder if she indeed did receive my message.
That very second my phone began to ring. It was very late, some time around 3 in the morning, and I thought it odd that anyone would be calling at this hour. I answered and it was her. "How dare you wake me up in the middle of the night with this!" She continued on, quite upset, but I don't really remember what she was saying. I was in shock. I explained to her what had happened, that I didn't really think she would hear me, and then we both began to cry.
It was all pretty intense, and our relationship was stronger after that. Eventually we did go our separate ways, but we still talk now and then and there's still a certain understanding there that I wonder if I'll ever be able to have with another human being.