ChrisJohnsen
Paranormal Adept
It's more than evident you and I have come to an impasse. In every response to my posts in this thread you have twisted what I wrote, or put words in my mouth, to make whatever point you felt the need to emphasize in order to push your narrative of being the target of unfair criticism. Let's be clear about what kicked this all off. I made two simple points:I'm simply tired of constantly being criticized, second guessed, and vilified for whatever reason. It gets old after awhile and I sure as hell ain't getting paid enough to stand up and play the target. I'm sorry if you think I overreacted. My invitation for you to participate in ANY show of your choosing was sincere. Since you seem to have a problem w/ my role here in some episodes (recuse myself?!) the invitation is open for you to jump in at any time and get involved. FYI: a sizable percentage of guests we have on the show I've known for years. This job ain't easy, we just make it look like it is...
1) Your statement to Gene during the intro of the show, a show that you knew going in might be contentious given the frequent and vocal criticisms both of you had repeatedly voiced on numerous previous episodes, that he would have to shoulder the burden of grilling Harzan because you two are friends and he's been an avid supporter, led me to comment that perhaps a guest host would have been a prudent choice on this occasion. That is in no way critical of you. Yet you seem to have taken it as a personal affront. My only thinking was "who wants to be in the position of having to mix it up with a friend and supporter?" Of course you have many friends but few come on the show poised for the hot seat. That's rarely the dynamic you and Gene have with guests. That was the only point I was trying to make with that comment/suggestion.
2) I shared my opinion that I didn't feel Harzan was adequately followed up on when discussing some of the major issues that have been discussed on the show and in the forums. I felt that he was given a pass after tossing out some incomplete, misleading or deflecting answers. There was nothing personal in my critique. It did not come off as inflammatory or overly harsh, nor was it meant to be. I just shared my frustration with the way the guest was handled. I thought it a fair assessment. You and Gene clearly disagree and expressed as much, each in your unique way.
That's it. I didn't target you specifically in my criticisms. It was an observation of the entire show. Gene responded the way Gene often responds to criticism and you have responded as you often respond. Offended that anyone has the temerity to critique a show. I got it. Less than positive comments are not appreciate and should not be shared with the class. Seriously, it will not happen again. I will also reiterate, before I shut up and move on, that I think you and Gene, on balance, do a terrific job. The Paracast is my favorite podcast specifically because of the hosts. It is why I am a subscriber and not simply a freeloader. I'd give more if I could afford it. So put that in your metaphorical pipe and smoke it so we can move past this contentious discussion and engage in friendlier interactions in the future.