I still find it interesting that one or two individuals are bent on determining what is and isn't valid to the rest of us.
I don't pretend to be an expert on what happens in any detail after we die other than to say we meet our maker IMO and in what way that plays out exactly is a mystery. I believe we eventually end up in a situation we decide to put ourselves in during this life. I know this view isn't valid to a few here. You'll find out soon enough and maybe a lot sooner than you think. I get my outlook from study of books some of you don't tend to hold as valid either.
The most common feature of this forum is the rolling of large heavy mental stones up hills of thought only to have someone push it back down the skeptical hill of opinion and then you go down and push it back up, push back and get into it. Par for the course. I think tone is everything. Absolutism, certainty and other high horses of the apocalypse scream like the second coming all across the history of threads here. It is indicative of something i'm sure.
Expertise seems to abound on this forum; it's just a matter of perspective.
Unfortunately some perspectives feel like theirs is the only valid vantage point in the room while others are open to having arachnid vision where multiple simultaneous perspectives exist. Those folks are great at starting conversations by agreeing to disagree, or both. Maybe paradox is a better place to inhabit, so long as you're not advocating any kind of oppression. Meanwhile others are just so elegant at celebrating the mystery.
You are the reason why i'm here.
However, since i've invested time here the net impact has been that i am not any more certain than i ever was about UFO's, encounters with strange creatures and otherworldly beings, time slips, synchronicities, certain magical/mental 'powers' or reincarnation. i'm still pretty vague about the whole thing, but somehow know a lot more about the whole thing.
That's the other Sisyphean aspect of it all.
The paranormal discourse has always been explosive, invested with emotion - both seen and unseen, and is hard to pin down, even amongst really smart people. It all fits the pattern: same personalities, same investments, same attacks, same paranormal miscommunications. That's what's ultimately disenchanting. That for me defines the general burning malaise of this space and the history of the field. Nothing learned, the same old patterns.
Now, I just stay away from certain conversations i know will be aggravating and try to stay away from those who push too hard. Though that just has to be an acceptable, democratic inevitability. What's sad is how different voices get silenced and whose opinions, no matter how surreal or wonderfully imaginative, go missing because this place is not comfortable for them to speak. Some might not get that - whatever. That's a high price to pay and not a fair exchange when it comes to looking for voices that are different, counter-establishment instead of those, whether knowingly or unknowingly, are entirely authoritarian, sometimes even dictatorial - depending on your perspective of course.
Sometimes it's all just ethnographic.