I'm new to the paracast forums. I cannot condone Mr Imbrogno's actions if he in fact did lie, who am I anyway? Do I have a right to pass judgement? Before I begin let me say I'm not related to this guy or am I his agent
This might end up being a boring post to most...I've got a feeling it will be quite a lengthy post
get yourselves a cup of coffee...
It seems as though there are a few 'forumites' on here that enjoy the blood sport or the "thrill of the kill" more than opening their minds to someone else's experiences. I know it may not be true for most on here but for me, the paranormal landscape is a mind boggling soup, filled with dead ends one minute then a sparkling or almost mind bending or blinding revelation or insight from somebody you listened to or read about.
To me, it's all about knitting little bits of information from here and there together, until a tapestry of information starts to take shape and reveal something to YOU individually that you may be able to then pass on to someone else. All the while keeping a level head and believing that a scientific approach brought by hard facts, evidence, research and observation is the only method to to this legitimately.
I'm the complete antithesis of a new age nutter, but looking back at my life, I stumbled across information about many things. It seemed at the time by chance. It may be so. I think I've heard some of you call it sychronicity? Do I believe it? I don't know more like coincidence. A week would pass then another piece of the jigsaw puzzle, a month, a year a decade...little pieces one by one, right now I think I have the top right hand corner of my tapestry thats about 5 cm x 5 cm and the tapestry is an infinite size...
I was focused on working 9-5(actually 8-anytime) buying my 1st house, getting married, having kids a FWD taking the kids to sport ...that was what I thought the world was about...then someone gave me a book, Mark Lane's book on the Kennedy Assassination, I'm from Australia and so I thought what does the assassination of a president half way around the world have to do with me? Why did this guy give me this book? Well...It was like someone smashed me in the face with a sledge hammer! How, why,WTF!!?? If this happened in the world's equivalent of Camelot (US) of the 1960's wtf was going on in the rest of the world?
I didn't know this person who gave me the book very well. I was surprised that he gave me the book. I actually stumbled across him 15 years later in another city in an airport lounge and we laughed about that!
So I started to question governments and their apathetic approach to moral and ethical governance of me and my family... the world. You read another book which leads you to a website which leads you to a book etc etc..Which brought me to the paranormal.
I thought for a long time the whole UFO thing was cut and dry, Intelligent life forms from another planet, the government(s) know, they are keeping the technology to themselves until oil runs out and they can find a way to charge for what ever the new energy source is! This is of course...Humbug!
Reading, listening to podcasts, watching doco's, has changed my view, it may not be correct but I don't think that any-more and I'm sure my opinion will change again in the future, that is the great thing about having a belief in a sourcing information from a scientific approach on everything in the universe, once you find out something isn't what you thought it was, you apologise and then move on. Not that anything in the paranormal has been proven or ..disproved
So when it comes to Imbrogno's little cough cough predicament, if you'll indulge and and allow me to use the following very simplistic analogy; it's like an adult who has a 5 or 6 year old child you don't want to spoil christmas, so you shut your mouth and make an excuse everytime the kids ask you, "daddy is santa real?" you turn to your wife and smile, all the while thinking "I could save myself some time here, why don't I tell the kid about the tooth fairy, the easter bunny and jesus(just joking, my wife is very religious) and save my self a hassle....but you CAN'T!
You can't because you are like superman to your kid and the truth is you're just a dad and that would be like kryptonite! Your kid thinks the sun shines out of your proverbial and sooner or later they are going to find out that you are not superman, that they can beat you in a race to the picket fence and you don't know everything about algebra, calculus and physics! You tell them you were the state soccer golden boot winner to give them something to aspire to and that the javelin was like a rocket when it left your hand to win the gold medal in the inter high school track and field games. You see his/her smile and you....feel like...SuperDAD, better than any gold medal or golden boot, had you actually won one!
I feel reading some the vitriolic attacks on many of the guests who bravely put their reputations on the line hoping to never make a singular slip or god forbid embellish a fact! Because some of the listeners are just like those little kids, looking up to superdad hoping that he or she is the greatest and best dad in the universe about to solve all their problems and unlock the holy grail of knowledge......but when we find out that they told a few 'stories' to perhaps embellish a story or two or more than likely to make themselves feel better(you can see Ibrogno now, imagining that he is Caesar in the roman Colosseum.."ibrogno, ibrogno, ibrogno" The walls come crashing DOWN! We feel hurt and upset so we try and tear them to pieces...all the while forgetting that they probably did more good than bad to us in that time?
Is it too hard to believe that this guy had his heart in the right place, but let his ego get the better of him? Can we dismiss everything he did? I can't be the judge... In the end everyone wants to believe in Santa but the truth is he's not real and everyone wants to be superman...but the truth is we can't be!