Almost fell for it NOT!
Come on, I just don't get it. Are you trying to make yourself look bad?
In your post you are basically saying "I am the victim".
It is quite ironic that you talk about cynicism.
Seriously if I was commissioned and given a huge team and unlimited resources and a year to do it, I still don't think I could come up with a better way to make you look more _____* than this:
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Just look at the amount of "likes" I have accumulated, I have more likes than posts.
I was not invited into those conversations you posted so I won't read them, but I would guess that you had the opportunity to resolve the issues privately, and you have chosen to post them in a thread about J Vallee.
This does not help the forum:
this site needs to be better than this,
you say but your actions say otherwise (as evidenced by your sharing of private messages).
As for trying to torpedo Chris in terms of Vallee, you are meddling with somebodies vocation, not like for you and me who just use the forum, this is Chris's career.
And by the same measure you are not helping the show either, what did you want to happen? for somebody to tell Vallee about what Chris said in a previous episode? Why don't you call him up, but you might be disappointed because if you take away the context, anybody who speaks their mind can be made to look all sorts of things, and even more so if they have a sense of humour.
Anybody who can't see that the paranormal and humour are linked, is in for an extremely slapstick hard fall, flat on their face.
It is pretty obvious that Vallee has a sense of humour and I very much doubt he would be offended, and vice versa: I reckon if Vallee did:
Could you imagine Vallee, making fun of Chris's cattle research while doing some horrible south western accent before calling Chris's life work and approach to research as BUNK...Of course not, Vallee has class.
Chris would be crying with laughter, because he has a sense of humour and would probably take it as a compliment.
I can imagine it very lucidly and it is making me laugh as I type this.
The way I see it you are willing to throw me, the show and the forum under the bus, to satisfy some misplaced sense of yearning for personal revenge.
But what will probably happen is that you will just throw yourself under the ban bus instead.
I can read your posts now but I wont be able to if you are banned, so your message wont be heard, if it was me I would try to resolve the issues in private because: appealing for support, on a platform provided by the very people you are attacking, will inevitably (and rightly so imho) be seen as 'bad form'.
Also I genuinely think you should take a moment to think about why what you have written could be seen as a personal attack, remembering that you know who Chris is, but he doesn't know who you are.
I tried to say it before the internet is a funny thing, it all too easy, to get infuriated very quickly, but most problems could be avoided by the way we write what we write.
There is not one person on the forum (including myself) that I have not disagreed with at some stage, yet I have never been banned? I have written nearly 2000 messages so it is not exactly like I haven't talked about controversial and emotional topics. There are ways to disagree if you are prepared to work at it.
One man's rubbish is another man's gold, that is life.
Please can we go back to discussing the episode.
*fill in with your choice of word (e.g. sanctimonious)