That is not possible. We are not a blank slates. Any information we gain about another person's world is automatically compared with our existing model as a reference point. That model consists of language and other symbolic programming that is deeply intertwined with our worldviews on both a conscious and subconscious level. Therefore what you do with or feel about the information you already possess prior to engaging another person is of key relevance to your capacity to understand and relate to them.
That's not what I meant. I don't often state the obvious, unless pushed.
Your apparent understanding of conversation comes from an information seeking standpoint. Mine doesn't.
I mean that my personal pursuit of information, and how I value that information, has no bearing on what I am told by another person regarding their view. I can certainly hear something that clashes with my own perception, but it has nothing to do with my purpose in talking to them.
I am capable of speaking to a person without judging them based on my perception of their lack of knowledge. This is especially true in cases where I am seeking to experience the inner world of another person, not seeking to expand my own knowledge base.
Conversation is experiential, for me. When I want to learn something objective, I'll read a science text book.
In other words, I'm not talking to you to learn about this world. I'm talking to you to visit your brain planet and learn about
it.
During a discussion, the "What and How I think" are synonymous with critical thinking in the pursuit of truth.
To you.
We define conversation very differently; consequently, we partake in it for different reasons. If you must, review my reactions to our initial discussion in the "Truth"
thread, when I believed it had ended. It is "fun" to find out about how other people think -- to see their inner world.
So that's exactly what you'll get from me.
Yes. I've said that several times. I kept trying to explain to you that we weren't in the same universe, let alone having the same conversation. You couldn't let go of the fact I didn't care about counterpoint or a debate.
Before I add any information to the "database" that makes up my worldview, it has to pass through these filters so that it can be appropriately defined within its intended context. Consequently my worldview is less like a Jackson Pollock and more like a Jacques Bodin.
Fair enough.
For me, that's not what conversation is about. I'm not looking to add to my database, and I don't automatically suspect anyone else is, either. That is what makes it interesting to throw information out there and see how it's processed.
Going back to the meteorite thing, I wasn't looking to add to my database, but it happened. It was a byproduct of my legitimate purpose -- hearing stories, visiting the heads of other folks, and having a good time.
It can get complicated when a conflicting, measurable matter has to be resolved -- as with the meteorite -- before further exploration of the other person's world can take place. I didn't challenge what I was being told because I wanted to enlighten Mau. I challenged it because I was interested in seeing where he'd take the conversation, given what I was saying -- given what I outdatedly knew. For instance, did he build his inner world to conflict with X piece of data, despite knowing that it exists? Did he build it because he didn't know? Those are the interesting things to discover. When he presented the follow-up information, and I found a few more sources, like NASA, that avenue could no longer be explored. The foundation for that section of that part of his inner world was built upon an ingested piece of objective reality -- a reality we were capable of sharing -- and that particular curiosity of mine was quenched.
Did we disagree on every other part of that discussion? Pretty much. Did it matter? Not really. There's no reason to explore those parts through the presentation of conflicting objective materials. As long as the topic of discussion revolves around subjective interpretation of data, the brain-world exploration is inherent.
In your version of conversation, most of that is ignored in favour of a systematic editing of two data sets via interactive comparison and redaction (or so it seems). That couldn't be any less interesting to me, as an activity. It's cool if that's what you're after, but understand that you won't find it reciprocated, in that way, on my end.