I don't think it's completely absurd at all.
I've had enough personal observations and weird crap in my life to think it's real. Of course that doesn't amount to a hill of beans as far as other people are concerned, but the bucket I put it into (given the fact that my weird crap seems to correlate loosely with a lot of other people's weird crap) is the "realistic" bucket.
I think what we may be witnessing is a kind of
category error whereby we expect a authoritarian or sociological response from a group that isn't designed to have this kind of response. The army exists to repel invasionary forces, not individuals. The army doesn't come in to fight tourists that don't have a visa. Police exist to stop people from killing each other or damaging each other's property. They may or may not expel tourists that don't have the proper paperwork, but only if they try to go through secure checkpoints. Government exists to decide where tax dollars go to, create and repeal laws, and to decide how to interact with other nation states. Which of these would we expect a response from regarding a sparse series of baffling interactions with
individual citizens? From weird craft (and
perhaps occupants) that act more like baffling tourists than an invasionary or expeditionary force? Who ya gonna call?
Remember, these "others" are approaching us as individuals, not a society. What part of society is going to respond, except loose groupings of individuals with experiences, or fringe elements that have a passing interest or seek to leverage some individuals for personal gain?
Add this to the high likelihood that -- maybe -- the "other's" view of reality doesn't conform to ours. They may have no version of democracy, capitalism, and the like to relate to us to. They may be a hive mind, therefore only able to relate to the individual mind (because they are one individual mind with many components and we are one individual mind). Or they may have raw, realistic versions of "telepresence" like holography or direct mental stimulation whereby some or even many of the interactions happen at the direct mind level.
If that were the case, what kind of response would we expect from the government? The army? The police?
Pretty much what we're getting. A tangled, distorted, muddled, ineffective mess.