Fedora Chronicles
Paranormal Maven
Hey, James... wanted to reply to your post in the Stan Freidman thread but didn't want to further pollute his thread with my guff.
No, James. You’re wrong. This is a pissing match between two monsters of UFOlogy – the “King Kong” and “Godzilla” are in this theoretical death match for the hearts and souls of true believers. That’s how it appears to be played out by all the parties involved. Like I’m going to say again later… we can’t “hear” people’s tone via text.
The purpose of “The Paracast” is to inform and entertain us on a weekly basis. Gene and Chris provide a decent (or in some cases excellent)ghost stories around this digital campfire. They tell a “ghost story” with the help of special guests, specifically authors who have written books that might also inform and entertain me and other members of the audience. For you, an author of a book, your goal should be to entice us to read your book. I have (at least) $11, you have a book to sell for $11. Your job is to convince me to give you my $11 and read your book so I’ll enjoy it and tell others who share similar interests to repeat the process. If you’re not here to do that, then what’s the purpose of you?
Entertain me with a good “ghost story” and perhaps convince me that your book is worth buying and reading. That’s true of every other author who comes to this virtual camp fire – your need to sell me on your book or you’re just wasting your time promoting it. What’s the point in mentioning it?
Getting the folks here to buy your book is a good thing. You’re not here to just give it all away – nor do you have the time to do so. You’ve already done the work now it’s time for us to do our part and read what you have to say. If we dare to have our believes challenged. Sometimes you come off as saying “BUY MY BOOK!” via my perception. But that’s not a bad thing because if not you wouldn’t be here. Many times you’ve said – and I’m paraphrasing – “you need to buy and read my book to know what I’m talking about and you can be more informed on what I’m trying say. You haven’t read my book so you have no right to an opinion.” I don’t have to read your book to have an opinion on it – my opinion is based on your appurtenance on the podcast and this forum.
Good for you for having a steady day job. You don’t NEED us to buy your book, but your publishers do if you’re going to write another book. (Unless you’re self publishing…) It’s actually healthy that you couldn’t care less one way or another about me or anyone else’s opinion unless we actually buy your book. That’s how it should be to an extent. A bit of emotional detachment is health and a good way to guard yourself and your well being.
Now, as for your comment – “I don't believe my theory is absolute truth, that is just what the evidence shows so far, until someone comes along and disproves my theory with documented research.” It might be just me but that’s not how you come off. You come off as someone saying “this is what really happened and if you don’t believe it, you’re a idiot!!!” That might not be your intent, that might actually be what you are actually saying. Nobody can tell what someone’s “tone of voice” is via written text in a forum.
Your theory is based on A)What you’ve read and chosen to believe, B)What you’ve read and chosen to not believe and ignore and C)What you have chosen not to read because doing so would be a waste of your time. That’s not just you – that’s all of us. Our beliefs are a based on a collection of facts or fiction we chose to embrace and our own personal experiences. That’s just human nature. Neither good or bad. Just is.
I sense some frustration with you because I think you have something you need to say but can’t for reasons we explored in your podcast; you’re bound to keep quiet. You’re the former director of this agency responsible for UFO research and you left for whatever reasons and I want to like you because you stood up for your beliefs. You’re miffed about something but I don’t know you’re full story yet. Even if I don’t agree with your theories I want to clean my plate as it were and get into your book a positive and open mind for the best experience possible. But… I’m also wondering if you’re ever going to pound out a book about your experience and why you left that organization. If you have… point me in the right direction.
Good luck and keep writing, Thanks!
This is not a pissing contest, nor a debate about whose theory is better, it is about using the scientific method - propose a theory - show evidence - wait for someone else to disprove your theory WITH evidence to the contrary.
As for your "buy my book" comment, I had to laugh, as I don't need to make a living off of this, I am gainfully employed in the computer field.
I don't believe my theory is absolute truth, that is just what the evidence shows so far, until someone comes along and disproves my theory with documented research.
No, James. You’re wrong. This is a pissing match between two monsters of UFOlogy – the “King Kong” and “Godzilla” are in this theoretical death match for the hearts and souls of true believers. That’s how it appears to be played out by all the parties involved. Like I’m going to say again later… we can’t “hear” people’s tone via text.
The purpose of “The Paracast” is to inform and entertain us on a weekly basis. Gene and Chris provide a decent (or in some cases excellent)ghost stories around this digital campfire. They tell a “ghost story” with the help of special guests, specifically authors who have written books that might also inform and entertain me and other members of the audience. For you, an author of a book, your goal should be to entice us to read your book. I have (at least) $11, you have a book to sell for $11. Your job is to convince me to give you my $11 and read your book so I’ll enjoy it and tell others who share similar interests to repeat the process. If you’re not here to do that, then what’s the purpose of you?
Entertain me with a good “ghost story” and perhaps convince me that your book is worth buying and reading. That’s true of every other author who comes to this virtual camp fire – your need to sell me on your book or you’re just wasting your time promoting it. What’s the point in mentioning it?
Getting the folks here to buy your book is a good thing. You’re not here to just give it all away – nor do you have the time to do so. You’ve already done the work now it’s time for us to do our part and read what you have to say. If we dare to have our believes challenged. Sometimes you come off as saying “BUY MY BOOK!” via my perception. But that’s not a bad thing because if not you wouldn’t be here. Many times you’ve said – and I’m paraphrasing – “you need to buy and read my book to know what I’m talking about and you can be more informed on what I’m trying say. You haven’t read my book so you have no right to an opinion.” I don’t have to read your book to have an opinion on it – my opinion is based on your appurtenance on the podcast and this forum.
Good for you for having a steady day job. You don’t NEED us to buy your book, but your publishers do if you’re going to write another book. (Unless you’re self publishing…) It’s actually healthy that you couldn’t care less one way or another about me or anyone else’s opinion unless we actually buy your book. That’s how it should be to an extent. A bit of emotional detachment is health and a good way to guard yourself and your well being.
Now, as for your comment – “I don't believe my theory is absolute truth, that is just what the evidence shows so far, until someone comes along and disproves my theory with documented research.” It might be just me but that’s not how you come off. You come off as someone saying “this is what really happened and if you don’t believe it, you’re a idiot!!!” That might not be your intent, that might actually be what you are actually saying. Nobody can tell what someone’s “tone of voice” is via written text in a forum.
Your theory is based on A)What you’ve read and chosen to believe, B)What you’ve read and chosen to not believe and ignore and C)What you have chosen not to read because doing so would be a waste of your time. That’s not just you – that’s all of us. Our beliefs are a based on a collection of facts or fiction we chose to embrace and our own personal experiences. That’s just human nature. Neither good or bad. Just is.
I sense some frustration with you because I think you have something you need to say but can’t for reasons we explored in your podcast; you’re bound to keep quiet. You’re the former director of this agency responsible for UFO research and you left for whatever reasons and I want to like you because you stood up for your beliefs. You’re miffed about something but I don’t know you’re full story yet. Even if I don’t agree with your theories I want to clean my plate as it were and get into your book a positive and open mind for the best experience possible. But… I’m also wondering if you’re ever going to pound out a book about your experience and why you left that organization. If you have… point me in the right direction.
Good luck and keep writing, Thanks!