CapnG
Devil's Advocate
jritzmann said:In the end, it always works out. So what the point of the pissing. There isn't one.
Release valve? Try not pissing about it for a day... I guarantee you'll crack.
jritzmann said:I've said many times, "this world has made me pissed off all the time".
No, I have allowed it to.
That's new-age crap. People don't want to believe in luck or fate or destiny or whatever epithet suits you but I assure you it's real and easily observable. Some of us get an easy ride in life, some of us don't, most get a mixed bag and that's all there is to it. Here's a true story as an example...
I have a friend who has ABSURDLY good luck. One day he went to a bar and when he got up to leave he searched his pockets and thought "Crap! I've lost my keys!" He looked around the bar but eventually gave up and went home. On the way home, he noticed something on ground... $5! "Well, it's not a total wash of an evening" he thought to himself. When he got home, he hung up his jacket, turned around and there, on his dresser were the keys, which he had not in fact lost but had forgotten to take with him in the first place.
Now some would say "Well, see that proves it! He has a positive attitude and therefore the universe rewarded him." BULLSHIT. He has a positive attitude BECAUSE the universe rewards him... constantly and consistantly. It's EASY to be positive when good things keep happening to you and bad things turn out to be not-so-bad in the end. People say "If life gives you lemons, make lemonade!" I say "What if life freezes that lemon, sharpens it into a citrus-y stake and jabs you in the eye with it?" Or better yet, "What if life gives you a steaming pile of shit?" you gonna drink that down with a smile on your face? I don't f-ing think so.
If your life is crappy then it's crappy and you have every right to be bitter and negative. THERE's your cause and effect, not the other way around.