For me the thing about a cruel god or a caring god is that fact that there seems to be these 2 sides. If someone does good deeds most of their lives but one day goes beserk and kills the family then we tend to look harshly on them do we not?
The point is, even if there is lots and lots of nice fluffy lovey-dovey stuff in the bible in addition to all the cruel nasty stuff, one does not balance out the other. The fact the nasty stuff is there is all the proof needed that this god, depicted in the bible, has a horrendously vengeful and violent sadistic streak.
If someone admitted to you that they had beat their wife many times but also told you that they also took her out for dinner and bought her flowers when remembering her birthday, would you overlook the wifebeating side cos of the fluffy side?
It may seem that we are picking and choosing all the worst bits and ignoring the good bits. Yes, indeed we are for the same reason as above. When looking at someone's character you look at the whole and one violent crime is enough to make anyone give a very negative appraisal. Many, many violent crimes are pretty hard to ignore?
It is the christians I think that pick and choose more than the atheists. I am willing to look at the whole thing, the whole message, the good and the bad - and I am left with thinking there is way too much bad. All the good in the world/universe cannot balance the bad. Religious people have blinkers on and only really refer to the good stuff.
Anyway, for me personally, all the good/bad stuff is irrelevant. I just do not believe the bible is the word of god dictated through the authors. Are we to believe that god spoke to these people over hundreds of years and then asked them to compile it all together and market it as the exact word of god? Please.
Now, please do not mistake my contempt for the bible for misunderstanding the good parts. Yes, there absolutely are many very good and sensible messages and lessons to be had from the bible. I can imagine if more people acted in the way of these good lessons we may have less suffering in the world. My own religious relations are without doubt the people I know who do the least bad. They are excellent members of society - productive, loving, caring, honest etc but I argue that they would be like that without the bible. I hope I am.
It matters not to me if some stories are false and some are true. It's the supernatural part, the Jesus was born of a virgin, walked on water etc. He either did these things for real or he did not. I strongly think he did not.
Even the religious have to concede that when it comes down to it, all they can really do is state that they have 'faith' as there is no way to prove the stuff in the bible here today. I do not and never have had 'faith' in that sense. I think christianity is no different than any cult, apart from the fact that it is an extremely successful and long-lasting one.
@Starise - lastly, no-one in this forum has anything against you personally, you have absolutely every right to be here and state your case. I know the religious threads can get a bit heated from time to time but if you are strong in your beliefs and can take a few knocks then i say to you that please, please, stick around and stand up for what you are. I love the debate on this topic but there would not be much debate if those with religious inclinations did not hang around for us to argue with! Trust me you are very welcome and if you feel you should post a video from youtube for your argument then you are entitled to do so as the rest of us are!
I promise, even if it might seem that way, I don't think anyone here does not welcome the debate - as long as we can all take the knocks now and then!
Goggs